Today I am veering away from diet and fitness (and I got up this morning at 5 am thank you very much and worked out! YAY).
While I am working, listening to the Benghazi hearings I wanted to pick my readers brains about relationships.
I’ve been divorced for quite some time now, about 14 years to be exact. Wow! Time flies when you are having fun huh? I’m about to turn 40 in another week...YIKES! so really these are just ramblings to see what other peoples experiences are when it comes to relationships.
Have you ever met someone in your life that has been in your same “sphere” but you never actually crossed paths. For example: they went to the same camp as you as a kid but you never knew them, they lived in another state just as you were leaving that same state (3000 miles away from home). Basically you just keep missing each other for some reason or another?
Now they are in your life, you are friends but you feel a deep emotional connection to them and you can’t explain it? Maybe you shouldn’t have feelings for this person, maybe they are married, coworker, or involved in another relationship but you can’t help how you feel. You think about them all the time, they remember things you say to them months earlier something you said in an offhanded remark, or just in passing but they remembered. It’s endearing, but is it real? When every fiber in your body screams you are going to get hurt but you keep putting your hand out in the fire just to feel the pain? Has this ever happened to anyone else?
They check up on you to see how you are pretty regularly and when you know something is wrong with them by just a feeling in your stomach and you text/call/email them to ask what’s going on and then they come back and tell you something bad that has occurred and you are just sitting in awe saying, is it a 6th sense or was it just a coincidence? and vice versa.
Please share your stories. I’m intrigued.